WHEN we SNAP out of passive and EMBRACE aggressive by being an upset which of the six needs is INSTANTLY satisfied? ARE there ALTERNATIVES?
Being aggressive due to an upset usually is because we want to be significant enough to prove to ourselves that we are worthy of love and connection.
The cost of having our significance for a fleeting moment is that being "an upset" usually prevents others from feeling loving towards us. Is this what you want?
Sometimes it is. Sometimes people are annoying and you want nothing more to do with them. The question is...
Are there better ways of achieving the same result?
